The two magical words which amuses me...
Infatuation is the feeling we get in our school days they say. Just like some guy for that particular period and its not love nor lust. But infatuation comes all throughout our life. I think whenever i like some guy its only infatuation and not love.
I don't understand how people realize its love seeing a person and they are their soul mate and will marry only that person. So many of my friends are in a relationship. Also they have not seen so many guys or girls in their life... how could they come to the conclusion she is the one or he is the one for them??? what if they encounter someone better person in future???
If i like some guy it will take time for me to understand why i like that person. Either he is good looking or good flirt or a intellectual person. I don't understand what love is??? I have never felt it... i end up thinking its just an infatuation...Am i missing something in it???
So please tell me, how to identify its love???
It will make you to look him again and again secretly.
ReplyDeleteYou will speak to your friends abnormally! you will not respond to them immediately always thinking about him or something.
Whenever you listen/see a love song you will think about him.
You will always think about the last time you speak with him... these are few stuffs.
and..........
At last you will become mad :P
Don't you think we will get these kind of feeling with many people... you can't restrict with one... at each age group you might have had someone like this???
ReplyDeleteHow to find the he is your true love among many??
ha, u jus know.. :D
ReplyDeleteinfatuation doesn't last after knowin a person well, for a considerable period of time :) either u'r over it, or it's love!! :P
You have these feelings with lot of guys?! Well not all the time same feelings! In that case I can't explain you. It's a feeling, you will understand only if you are in love.
ReplyDelete@ divya
ReplyDeleteit makes some sense to me now :P
@teky
thats what the problem.. i have never felt that feeling...
Vidhya,
ReplyDeleteIn this world, I dont think any person can give a proper definition for love,crush, infatuation etc etc.
Well, lets face it, we dont know whether the person we marry is the right person (arranged marriage). It would be a big lie if these ppl(love marriage folks) in relationships claim they know everything abt the partner. So basically it is time. Time defines it.
There is nothing like true love either. If somebody defines true love then what is false love. I have seen very recently moral values hv degraded and both guys/girls have become gf/bf snatchers.
There is some amount of madness in love. I dont think any head oriented ppl can fall in love. It is more about heart/emotions and sometimes stupidity too.
Whatever we get, we have to make it the best.
Time will define what love it :)
@ nirmal
ReplyDeleteI feel the same way but sometimes we think too much to find what it is and by that time things gets changes...
Very beautiful explanation.. Loved it :)
Yes i too wonder how people fall in love virtually !! I can read ur confused mind about the age old questionsasking what is love / give me symptoms of love ..Well love doesnt come when you need it , or you just dont love a person just because you want to experience 'it' ..(k i knw i have been telling what you actually know , but still dats d truth n my opinion ) ...When you are in love with someone , i mean true love , and you ask yourself why you love that person ? , when no answers come ( or rather 1000 reasons are listed yet your mind refuses to accept that as a reason ! ) , then you are in love ...In my opinion , when you cant answer why you love that person , you are deeply in love :)
ReplyDeleteI have a different issue, If a pretty girl says 'Hi', my ear always translates is as "I love you"....
ReplyDeleteLOL. Really funny.
ReplyDeleteSay, Im in a college belong to CSE dept. I see a beautiful girl A in my class. I see another beautiful girl B in ECE dept. I like both of them.
Infatuation is something if I feel I have option or think A is better/beautiful than B, so I like B and not A. I mean beautiful by thoughts/looks/everything else.
Love is something if you dont feel any options.Say,you feel A is beautiful than B even though it not so.
If you have the attitude of not giving up or don't want yourself to be down then its infatuation.
Now say I changed my college and find even more beautiful girl than A. If it is love you will not feel she is better person than A. If it is infatuation then you feel it.
If you have the feel of love with many people then its infatuation. Thats it.
As Nirmal said if you think "Whatever we get is the best" then it is love. Else its not love its just foolishness.
To avoid all these confusions lets abide with our ancestor mantra called arranged marriage. If you like the guy/girl in first look, If you think he/she is beautiful better try to be friends than trying to be lover.
@Ginesh
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