Sunday, August 31, 2008

No love No tension :)

This post is the continuation of previous one :)
Everything I said yesterday was so immature. I took one day to realise that its not love. Its just tiny whinny crush and infactutation that I got on a person who was so affectionate and caring about me. Sleeping and eating stuff got okay today. Crying thing is that you usually cry when a nice person who cares a lot about me , so obviously everybody will cry when they miss such a person.So I am pretty happy and confident now. Always when you are so idle each day that u start thinking all bullshit. My previous post was one among them. Thank you for my friends who made me realise that I am not in love.

p.s: Being single always rocks...

Is it love????

I am not getting sleep these days at night.
Also not feeling hungry from past few weeks.
Is it love symptoms???
I fight with my friend and keep calling him again to compromise with him. Miss him so much that I start crying everytime, when I remember him..
Is it love???

p.s : Is it love??? If yes what I have to do???

Friday, August 29, 2008

Saturated Life !!!

Most pathetic life is being in home jobless waiting for a company to call. The most horrible period I say. Your parents say you not to sit idle in home. Your seniors and friends say enjoy the holidays. Your siblings will say you are worth for nothing. All the relatives will ask you whether you want a job with their reference in a company.


All I want to tell them all is I am having a job in my hand. I am happy with that. I can wait until they call me. But how long I can wait?? 6 months or 7 months??? Initially first few months will be going fine. Watching TV, online, messaging, chatting with friends in phone for hours together, eating and sleeping.How many days these can be fun??? Parents start pampering you to try for some other companies and stop watching movies, stop speaking hours together in phone and at last they tell me try to limit your expenditures even though you are not able to earn now.They started losing interest in me. For past two months I am trying get a passport for me. I have only ration card as my proof. But that's not enough to get a passport. All I wanted is a bank account. When I said my friends that I don't have a back account , voters id and License to apply for passport.


In 21 yrs I have been riding vehicle without license for 8 yrs. I wonder for not having a bank account for myself. Whenever I wanted money dad used to give me. All my friends asked me how come you have been like this without any proof?? I was not able to answer them too.After too much pleading dad I got a bank account finally. Now I have to apply for my passport. When you’re in such a state without an identity and idle in home everything becomes so impossible for us. Even it may be getting passport or a license.


After leading a systematic life going to school properly and then to college sincerely and really being nerd for 6yrs, it’s all tough for me to lead a life like this. I am bored being bore. Nobody can understand this state of life than a friend. But again coming to friends they won't there with you after college life. Very few will be in contact with you. Even those few are out of station or busy in their work. The loneliness, being idle, advices from others whomever we meet or speak all this really sucks.I thought life after college will be so cool, no more studies. I can live my life. But I was totally wrong. All finishing your studies and got a job in hand and sitting like couch potato in home is more sucking. The transition period from student to an employee is not as easy.Whatever we do parents think it’s not good. Nobody to share what we feel. No friends listen to us. Really tough after being studious kinds for these many years. I feel I have not enjoyed the school and college to the fullest. All I have to enjoy my life now before joining a company. But your parents don't allow you to enjoy. I feel the generation gap with them now.


Most important thing is the sleeplessness. I am really not able to sleep before 1 or 2 am. Even if I try to sleep I am not able to sleep thinking about my state life. End up sleeping late at night. Getting up late morning and daily scolding from mom. Skip the breakfast. I am totally spoiling my health doing like this.In this period of life one can't live without mobile phone, pc, internet connection and games. I have been trying to make my parents understand my situation. But they feel i am wasting my life. Every month when your mobile validity gets over and the time you have to ask them for money and even for hanging out with friends.

Nothing so happening. All I live a virtual life nowadays trying to be active in that. This life is more difficult to lead for a person like me who don't even have a best friend to share. So, i am sharing it here.


p.s : feeling good after ranting this much :)

Wednesday, August 27, 2008

Phoonk - Not so scary


Last week i saw the movie phoonk. To have some thrill i watched it at night. Only few scenes were very scary. But its not upto the high level of scary. I think so many people can win the contest that ram gopal varma has announced. But he said its the best ever scary movie so far in bollywood. Im a scary cat and even i don't feel it has worth the hype.

Its all about black magic. Even its not explained well in the movie. Total waste of money and time. The little girl Ahsaas Channa has acted well. I liked the tagline of the movie Its superstitious until it happens to you .

My points : 2.5/5

p.s : Don't waste your time and money watching this movie :)

Tuesday, August 26, 2008

My bad luck with mobile phones :(

I got my first mobile in my second year after pleasing my parents getting a good percentage in my semester exams. I loved the mobile too much. I was always with my mob day and night when i am in home. I loved my mobile too much than more than anything. It got lost after one year.

After that i was without mobile for 6 months. Then my brother got me new stylish good looking mobile with a bluetooth headphone. But i made its stylish looking to pathetic one by dropping it more than 20 times. Now its keypad got totally screwed up. I wanted a new mobile now. I thought of managing this mobile until i join my job and start earning. But this mobile died before that. At last i asked my dad to get me one new mobile even said a mobile 2k will be fine for me. I had 600 rupees with me so dad gave 1200 rupees and i got a new mobile for 1.8k yesterday.

It was my first shopping alone. My mom was total against of me getting a mobile now. But dad was pretty ok with it. I don't know why im having such a bad luck with mobile phones???

Everybody will go for better one in their life. But in my case its i have come to lower one after using very good mobile :(

p.s: Actually shopping alone was quite thrilling too :)

Friday, August 22, 2008

It's for you dear :)

Yesterday was my friend P's birthday. I totally forgot about that. Today when i was in traffic just waiting green signal i remembered i missed her birthday. I messaged to her mobile , still no response from her. I think she might me be really upset with me for not remembering her bday. Funny thing is she even chatted with me in gtalk that time too it didn't come to my mind. So im really sorry baby i missed your birthday...
happy birthday to you...
happy birthday to my dear p...
may god bless you dear...
Next time may be i will be the first one to wish you. Don't think i forgot you after our college is over. Please reply me after reading this dear :)
p.s: please forgive me dear...

Wednesday, August 20, 2008

20th aug

Day was very good.
My schoolmate MM spoke to me for an hour. It was really nice speaking to her.
I saw God tussi Great ho today. I liked the movie.
Today M chatted well it went beyond normal 4 line chat sections :)
My friend got selected for an interview in a big company. I am very happy for him. All the best SS :)
My mom didn't scold me much today.
Dad and i had a good conversation during dinner.
Yesterday saw Singh is Kinng i liked that movie too. Akki is a hit machine now. Beated SRK in boxoffice.
India won the cricket match against SL. First time it was not in headlines. Because India got one more Olympic medal Sushil kumar got Bronze medal in Free Wrestling. Also Vijayendra in semi finals in boxing. So another medal assured for India. It was really a good day for India in Olympics today.
Today i took my apti book and practiced for 30 mins. Also went through some C problems.

p.s: M is a very good guy.. He had a starting problem i think :)

Making friends: Easy or tough??

Many times in our journey of life we feel like being friend with some people whom we see. It feels like it would be nice if he/she is our friend. During my school days I get friends very easily. Not even I had the hesitation to go and speak to them during school days. In my school nobody bully you when you speak with a guy. Everybody's mind was pretty good. So last time I think I have been myself speaking with the people I like and being friend to them was in school days. It ended up there itself.

After coming to college it was totally different. Never a guy would come and speak with a girl. Even if a guy gathers all his courage and speaks with a girl then he is dead. From the teasing and bullying stuffs he gets. Even some of the girls too never go and speak with guys. I have been in coed in my schooling. So I just don't feel any different between genders. I just treat them all equally. During my first year of college one guy K would chat with my hours together in YM. I asked him why you don’t speak freely in class with me. Also you don't even look at me when I am in the class. He gave the same bullshit reason that all his friends would be teasing him.

I really don't mind speaking with any guy in my class. Even though they are scared to speak with girls I still try to speak with my class guys during lab hours. But still everybody started thinking bad about me that I am behind every tom, dick and harry. So from that day I reduced speaking with all. For just two year of college life was like this. After that everybody mingled well. During college days I really liked one mech guy R. Every time I see him in Auditorium or in canteen I feel like it would be nice if be a friend of him. As you know how my buddies would think of me when I go and speak to me. Even I had the hesitation how would that guy think of me when I go and speak to him. So I really didn't try being friend with anybody other than my class guys.

At my 3rd year of college my bro introduced me to this blog sphere. I read really a lot of blogs. At times I feel how it would be if be his friend. I search the blog guys and girls in orkut and twitter just try to know about them. If some people are revealing their name I would like to find out their real name. It would be quite funny and interesting. You may now I think I am so jobless that I am doing these things. I am not jobless it’s just a curiosity that I want to know them. After few months I thought why can't I add up some of my favorite bloggers in my gtalk and chat with them.

I added two of them M and G. When I added them I was so happy that I can chat with my favorite bloggers. I introduced myself to M first we really had chatted for some 20 minutes. I should reply we I ask him something. Never ask anything himself. To say I felt that he was not at all interested in being friend with me and knowing about me. After first day other days went more pathetically,
me: hi
M: hey
me: Good morning :) What u doing??
M: just now got up. I am brushing.
me: k carry on...
Its ends here
next time
me: hii(many i’s in a hi then they r more excited)
M: (after 5 mins) yeah
me: busy??
M: im cooking / eating/ etc
me: k carry on
it ends here. So the chat never goes beyond that.
With G it was worse.
me: hiii
G: Do I know u?
me: No you don’t know me. I know u. I follow your blog.
G: Oh like that.
me: s
ends here no reply.

Next time
me: hiiii
G: (No reply)
I assume he is very busy.

From all I want to know is "are they really not interested in chatting with some stranger?? Or They have starting problem to chat with someone?? I end up thinking they are not as friendly as me. Or they think its waste of time chatting with someone else..?? May be they even think why I am disturbing them??"When I said this to one of my very good friend he replied me telling "whatz your problem dear?? Just fuck off with those guys.. Why you want to speak with those who are not at all interested in chatting with you?" I agree with whatever he said. But still wanted to know why I can't be their friend. I am regretting now for adding them in my gtalk. At last to a conclusion they think I don't deserve to be their friend.

p.s: I think they are not friendly as me... I am really super cool ;)

Monday, August 18, 2008

Bachna Ae Hasseno


Star cast: Loosu ranbir, hot bipasha, beautiful deepika, cute minissha
points: 3.5/5

After "Sawaariya" being a big flop... Ranbir kapoor(Raj) with three heroines with Yash Raj production has come up with this movie...
Starting of the movie with Minissha lamba(Mahi) searching for her perfect love Raj as in DDLJ... She falls in love with Raj and they kiss and stay together one night... At last she comes to know that he didn't love her... He was just time passing with her...
Next Bipasha Basu (Radhika) who becomes Raj's living girl friend... Even plans to get married with him... But he cheats her too and leaves to Sydney...
In Sydney he meets Deepika (Gayathri) as a part time Taxi driver... Falls in love with her truly but she betrays him... Now he feels the guilty for what he did to Mahi and Radhika... So he leaves to ask sorry to them... Then when he is back to Sydney gets his love Gayathri ...
This is the story line... But it is totally a guy’s movie... It can be watched once... Felt Ranbir has over acted... But he is really lucky got the opportunity to kiss three heroines... Time pass love and living together and getting hooked up with any girl he wants shows the movie is so stereotyped...

My space

Blogging after many days feels good... I am just going to rant about my personal life, discuss about my favourite stuffs, ramble about things i don't like too... I have started this blog to share my thoughts... I want to be myself in this virtual life... I can freak out, be crazy, shout at anybody and be weird, which im not able to be in my real life... I have always felt like im not living my life to the fullest... Also i m gonna maintain this blog as my personal diary..

17th aug

Got up at 10.30 am...
Had a great food since today was gayatri jabaam...
Watched olympics for few hours...
Then sent time reading blog( This is what i do mostly when im online )...
Today found two very nice blogs...
Right from morning was little upset because my bro was leaving to US after his vacation... I love him too much but never show it to him... Even he is too like me... I feel so insecure and alone without him... From morning didn't speak much to him... I don't want him to find that im gonna miss him... But all in vain, i cried in airport before he left to check in... Eventhough i know im going be in touch with him daily through voice chats,but still my mind feels im left alone...
Reached home at 12.45am from airport...
Now in online writing this post...
Good night :)

p.s: Have to get up early tomorrow....